Friends, Today I want to share with you very unique & useful
Happiness is our inner feelings. Every moment what we feel is very important. Happiness is directly related to our emotional state. If we want to be happy we have to be emotionally strong. We have to develop ability of controlling our emotion. Different people have a different measurement of happiness. Some people fell happy when they get good facilities, some people feel happy when they get success, someone feel happy when they become rich, someone find happiness in love, someone find happiness in relationship someone find in knowledge, someone find in name & fame etc… After all every one live their life to be more & more happy. Here I am going to share with you very important & effective HAPPINESS FORMULA which is called 3A & 3C FORMULA. Here it is… To be more & more happy follow 3A & remove 3C.
1st A is – ACCEPT. To be more happy Accept people & accept situations which you can’t change. Everybody have their strength & weakness. Don’t try to change everybody. Accept everyone unconditionally. If you accept everyone you can understand everyone
& can develop good relationship with them. So accept everyone & be happy. Accept situations also. For example when you put some efforts to achieve success but you didn’t get expected result, don’t worry. Accept this situation & start action again with new ideas.
2nd A is – ADJUST. To be happy adjust with the situations you can’t
change. Some situations are not in our control so we have to adjust
with this situations we don’t like. Don’t be rigid be flexible & be
3rd A is – APPRECIATE. Everyone like appreciation. So, don’t hesitate to appreciate people when they do something good. Admire them because your appreciation will encourage them. They will feel happy. They respect you more & you will also feel happy. So, follow ACCEPT, ADJUST & APPRECIATE to be more & more happy. Now remove 3C to be more happy.
1st C is – COMPLAIN. Some people have a habit of making complain.
Don’t complain about people, situations, or something you don’t like.
When you make a complain to others the listener will get irritated
with you. Then he or she will start ignoring you & you can’t tolerate
2nd C is – CONFLICT. Avoid Conflict. Don’t argue with people during
discussion. Because argument arise conflict. Conflict create huge gap
3rd C is – COMPARISON. Don’t compare yourself with others because
everybody have their own knowledge, skill, ability & efficiency. You
are unique. No one is similar to you. So avoid unnecessary
comparison to be more happy.
Friends, I hope you like this 3A & 3C FORMULA. Put this formula in
your habit & be more happy. I wish you more & more happiness.
Life Coach Kalpesh Desai.